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Witnesses
Kelly Sankowski
St. Phoebe Day Witness, St. Martin de Porres, Toledo, OH
March 27, 2024

Writing my St. Phoebe Day reflection gave me the opportunity to reflect on my long and winding journey of discerning my vocational call to ministry, and how that was impacted by my own exposure (or lack thereof) to women leaders in the Church. While I consistently felt drawn toward ministerial roles and academic study of religion, it was not until I worked for a diocese and saw women in leadership there that I began to imagine that I, too, could have a career in ministry in the Church. 

While this does not necessarily mean a personal call to the diaconate, I believe the prospect deserves serious consideration and discernment. I have come to appreciate that each individual reflects different aspects of who God is, and I believe that having women's voices heard from the pulpit could open us up to a more complete picture of the divine. Perhaps it could also make it easier for future generations of Catholic women to imagine themselves as leaders in the Church.

“This is not only because Church teaching written by men sometimes misses the mark when it comes to women’s lived experience. It is not only because our Church’s management in many ways mirrors the patriarchal systems that have also harmed our secular society – mismanaging cases of abuse and failing to provide living wages or adequate parental leave policies to its employees. It is primarily because without women’s voices, we are missing out on entire elements of who God is.” -Kelly Sankowski, St. Phoebe Day 2023

 

Witness
“For many years, I had the privilege of leading Communion services in nursing homes and assisted living facilities. In the beginning, I did this with great trepidation, but by the time my ministry ended, I was thoroughly convinced that the Holy Spirit can fill the hearts, souls and minds of faith-filled women every bit as much as those of men.”
Jacalyn Anderson
Parish Member and Lector, Winchester, WI
Witness
“I have been blessed with women who have shared their many gifts with me. They have broken open Scripture for the people of God with their own perspective and insight. They have shown ways of leading which empower and confirm the value of each individual person. They have offered perspectives and visions of the Spirit’s call to live God’s love for all.”
Don Highberger, SJ
University Campus Minister and Hospital Pastoral Minister, St. Louis, MO
Witness
“If I could be ordained a deacon, the people would hear the Good News preached with authority at the pulpit and in the world. For me personally, it would feel like the ability to serve in the manner in which God has put on my heart to serve. As a minister of the word, liturgy and charity, I would preach the word to inspire others to love God and their neighbor. I would continue to bring communion to the sick and imprisoned, but I would also free our priests by taking on some baptisms, weddings, and funeral services that are outside of the Mass. It would feel like the fullness of what I was meant to do.”
Theresa Shepherd-Lukasik
Director of Adult Faith Formation, St. Joseph Parish, Seattle, WA

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